and i say no no no no

Can we say those things? If she were dude instead of a dudette sure we could. Take for instance John McCain, we could say "dude, what happened, you got your ass kicked in Kansas and Louisiana by a guy who was the first person in his family to graduate from high school. High school! The Republican base must really, really must hate you McCain if they'd rather vote for a guy who's most significant endorsement is from Walker Texas Ranger over a war hero like yourself. Whaddup wid'dat?"